It’s Just Not About You

The Other Side of the Coin

One of my favorite singers, Tenille Arts, recently released a song called “If Somebody Told Me You Were Dying.” In the song, she expresses that though she has been deeply wounded by this person, if she learned the person were dying, she’d still grieve because “I can still hate you and be sad.”

One line in the song goes “If somebody told me you were dying, I probably wouldn’t make it to the funeral,…